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About the CEO

My name is Lila Galustian, I also go by the name Lili. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and the owner of Re-Discovering You, a marriage and family therapy corporation. Yup, that mouthful is the company's real name. :)
I opened Re-Discovering You to begin helping fight back against the stigma of the diagnosis of borderline personality disorder and to provide a space for those with the diagnosis of borderline personality disorder to learn how to recover, heal, and leave treatment knowing themselves better than when they walked in, with help and utilization of CBT and DBT skills.
I began my career in the mental health world as a mental health tech at Clearview residential treatment programs in 2012 when the program was owned by Michael Roy and run by Dr. Alina Gorgorian Ph.D., meanwhile, I attended Antioch University to complete my master of arts in psychology, specializing in early childhood development. I completed my education in 2014 and my associate hours as an employee of Clearview under the supervision of Dr. Alina Gorgorian in 2017. I was recruited to begin working as a program director and then was promoted to clinical director of Resilience treatment programs under the ownership of Andrea Garai. My expertise is the diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder and behavioral patterns.
Throughout my career, I have received countless trainings on CBT and DBT treatments from reputable trainers and programs.
Lila is a natural teacher of mental health and has 3 specific trainings she provides to the mass community. If you, your program, or a group of people are interested in any of the following training, feel free to reach out via email or call.
About the Skills Application Model of Therapy
At Re-Discovering You, we accomplish success in change by providing an honest conversation of problem behaviors, and functions of the behaviors, identifying the patterns of those behaviors non-judgmentally, discussing the change with a willingness to implement evidence-based skills, and learning to observe the change with patience and self-validation. We do believe that validation is key to understanding and invalidation helps guide us towards change. Consequences of actions are part of our learning and learning to use skills to tolerate our consequences helps our brain begin wanting to change. Fear of change is real, and the opposite action to the fear helps build confidence and self-esteem.
The common statements clients will hear are, "The brain is the smartest and dumbest organ. What you communicate to it is the reality it will work hard to create for you." and "The world might have caused your problems, and right now you're the only one that can begin changing it, no one else but you needs to do better for your life to get better". Those are the skills application mottos.
Symptoms
Symptoms we specialize in working with:
Below is a list of specific symptoms that we specialize in working with using Cognitive and Dialectical behavioral therapies. Instead of giving you the full DSM spiel, I’m going to try to describe the symptoms in simple terms. I hope this is helpful to understand the symptoms and the work that we do to help you learn how to manage and begin being in a way that matches your personality and your values.
Contact
Interested in joining our skills application team and re-discovering yourself? Reach out and let's talk.
747-228-2621
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